Do you sometimes feel like you’re just you just can’t do it?
There’s something stopping you from doing what you know you need to be doing online.
To build a business. To sell a course. To build an audience.
What’s stopping you?
I can go back to what stops me whenever I feel not sure as to whether my content is gonna make me feel ridiculed or that people are gonna laugh or people are gonna say I’m silly or I’m wasting my time or any of those things.
I have those feelings and I bet you do, too.
Most people do, right? We feel that like we’re afraid that people will judge us, right?
Nobody likes to be judged.
The difference between somebody like me and somebody who stops themselves but just doesn’t do anything.
It’s just that it’s the action, right?
So for me, even though I’m doing my post every day, even though I’m doing silly things, even though I’m posting things that people judge me for, it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t bother me.
It just means that I take action on even though I’m bothered by it and that’s what you need to be doing.
You need to be taking action even if you’re feeling paralyzed and you’re feeling scared that the only way you can get over that fear is by taking action and you probably already know this.
You just need the extra push that go and do it.
And hopefully this video or this episode is going to help you to get over that.
To just take action because you know what’s stopping you, it can be any number of things but most likely, it’s all around the worried you might have.
About how you might feel. About how people might judge you. About how they might laugh at you. About how they might tell you that you’re wasting your time, that you’re silly, that you’re doing something stupid, that you’re an idiot whatever, right?
Even putting stronger words in that. It’s all about our fear of being judged, of being ridiculed, of being put down.
Nobody likes that.
Nobody wants to be to feel that way and and the thing is that it’s gonna happen there and you know the bigger you get, the more success you get. The bigger families to have, the more followers you have. The more chances there are that you’re actually gonna find somebody out there that will make you feel that way, that’s what we call haters.
So you gotta remember that even though you feel this way and even though it’s gonna happen, that you’re gonna have people out there telling you that you don’t deserve this. That you aren’t doing the right thing. That you look silly.
That you are wasting your time even though those things can happen and chances are they will.
It shouldn’t stop you from moving ahead because you’re gonna find lots of people that are not gonna judge you.
That I’m gonna think you’re awesome.
That gonna think what you’re doing is great.
That are gonna appreciate the things that you you do with you’re trying to teach people things.
If you’re trying to help people with saying things, if you’re selling a course, you’re building a course, you owe it to those that it will help to go ahead and
do it to take the action to move forward, right?
That’s just the way it is.
With the online world, you’re basically going out there.
You’re making yourself public and being public is not easy.
It’s not easy for anyone.
Even for me, when you look at me and you think, Oh he doesn’t care about what people think. He just posts things. He does these silly things.
It’s not that I don’t care.
It’s not that it doesn’t bother me.
It’s that I choose to do it anyways.
I choose to move ahead. I choose to ignore the negativity around it.
To just think of the positive.
To fill up with the people out there.
To join communities of people who care, who have the same goals.
To be part of the positive and ignore the negative.
I’m gonna get people that are gonna react weirdly to things and they’re gonna tell me, they don’t want to connect.
They don’t want to be part of my world.
They don’t want me to be part of their world.
They’re not happy with what I’m doing or they think of what I’m doing is stupid.
That’s gonna happen. It actually does happen but it doesn’t mean that I should stop.
It doesn’t mean you should stop. You should move ahead. You should just do it.
And you know, we’re figuring out what is stopping you is really not that complicated because we’re all humans.
We all care what other people think about us.
We all want to be the person that everybody likes.
Unfortunately, that’s not possible.
It doesn’t exist.
It’s not possible to be liked by everybody.
Because just say for example, you’re this awesome person that most people like.
They’re still gonna be for the people who don’t like you because most people like you, it’s totally insane. It’s ridiculous.
There’s people out there that don’t like people who are liked just because that’s their personality.
They like people who aren’t liked, right?
So they gravitate around people who are doing things like maybe they do or something or whatever but the point is that you’ll never be
able to be liked by everybody so you gotta accept that and move and take action.
Just do it. Take action and do it. Start posting.
Do what you need to do to build your business online, to grow your audience.
Alright, hopefully you enjoyed this message and if you think anybody else needs to hear it then please go ahead and share.
I’m sure they’d appreciate it and I would, too.